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Post by Silmarillion on Nov 5, 2001 2:01:16 GMT -5
Found this poll, but one was for women, the other was for men....some of these have probably been covered before, but oh well...LOL
This one if for the guys....
1. Is it possible for you to fall in love with a woman without having sex with her?
2. Can having sex make the difference between falling in love and not falling in love for you?
3. If you cannot see yourself falling in love with someone, but she has sex with you, could that help you fall in love with her?
4. If you do not have any significant feelings for someone and she has sex with you, could this make you feel that she's 'special'?
5. Would you date a woman just to have sex with her?
6. If 'No' for #5, was there ever a time after the age of 18 you would have dated a woman just to have sex with her?
7. If you were dating and using a woman just for sex, what's the longest you would date her?
1 Night
1 Week or Less
1 Month or Less
2 Months
3 Months
4 Months
5 Months
6 Months
Indefinitely
8. If you were dating a woman just to have sex with her, how long would you date her BEFORE having sex if at first she said no?
1 Week
2 Weeks
3 Weeks
1 Month
2 Months
3 Months
6 Months
9 Months
12 Months
As long as it took to get her to say yes.
9. If you're dating someone you consider special and she DOES NOT have sex quickly, does this make her...
More Appealing
Less Appealing
It Wouldn't Make A Difference In How I Felt About Her
10. If you're dating someone you consider special and she wanted to WAIT FOR MARRIAGE before having sex, would you wait? How long would you wait?
11. How would you feel if the woman you marry previously had sex with another man that she loved?
Very Good
Somewhat Good
Indifferent
It Would Bother Me A Little
It Would Bother Me A Lot
I'd Stop Dating Her
The Past Doesn't Matter To Me
12. How would you feel if the woman you fell in love with had sex QUICKLY with the men she previously dated?
Very Good
Somewhat Good
Indifferent
Bother Me A Little
Bother Me A Lot
I'd Drop Her
What Happened In The Past Doesn't Matter
13. How would you feel if the woman you loved previously had sex with other men on ONE-NIGHT STANDS?
Very Good
Somewhat Good
Indifferent
Bother Me A Little
Bother Me A Lot
I'd Drop Her
The Past Doesn't Matter
14. Would you prefer the woman you marry to have previously had NO sex partners or SOME sex partners?
NO sex partners before me
No more than ONE sex partner before me
No more than TWO sex partners before me
No more than THREE sex partners before me
No more than FOUR sex partners before me
The number of her past sex partners is none of my business
15. Do you feel there is a difference between being in LOVE and being in LUST?
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Post by Zoras on Nov 5, 2001 6:21:54 GMT -5
Gee, this one's a lot longer than the women's poll. --- 1. Is it possible for you to fall in love with a woman without having sex with her? [glow=red,2,300]Yes. I know, because its happened to me before.  [/glow] 2. Can having sex make the difference between falling in love and not falling in love for you? [glow=red,2,300]It certainly helps if she's a good lover, but its not the prime requirement.[/glow] 3. If you cannot see yourself falling in love with someone, but she has sex with you, could that help you fall in love with her? [glow=red,2,300]No, and I wouldn't bed her unless I did feel something for her, even if its just friendship.[/glow] 4. If you do not have any significant feelings for someone and she has sex with you, could this make you feel that she's 'special'? [glow=red,2,300]It would move our relationship to a higher level, but 'special'? Probably not.[/glow] 5. Would you date a woman just to have sex with her? [glow=red,2,300]Did once, when I was younger. Didn't come off. *sheepish grin*[/glow] 6. If 'No' for #5, was there ever a time after the age of 18 you would have dated a woman just to have sex with her? [glow=red,2,300]No.[/glow] 7. If you were dating and using a woman just for sex, what's the longest you would date her? <br> [glow=red,2,300]I doubt I could remain with a woman that long and not develop at least SOME affection for her. If no, I would break the relationship off after a month or so. It would be best for both of us.[/glow] 8. If you were dating a woman just to have sex with her, how long would you date her BEFORE having sex if at first she said no? <br> [glow=red,2,300]Oh very well... For the purposes of this question, probably a month or 2.[/glow] 9. If you're dating someone you consider special and she DOES NOT have sex quickly, does this make her... <br> [glow=red,2,300]It Wouldn't Make A Difference In How I Felt About Her[/glow] 10. If you're dating someone you consider special and she wanted to WAIT FOR MARRIAGE before having sex, would you wait? How long would you wait? [glow=red,2,300]Ugh... She'd have to be REALLY special, because I would want a partner who wants sex as much as I do.  [/glow] 11. How would you feel if the woman you marry previously had sex with another man that she loved? <br> [glow=red,2,300]The Past Doesn't Matter To Me. I would be curious about it certainly, but I wouldn't dwell on it.[/glow] 12. How would you feel if the woman you fell in love with had sex QUICKLY with the men she previously dated? <br> [glow=red,2,300]What Happened In The Past Doesn't Matter[/glow] 13. How would you feel if the woman you loved previously had sex with other men on ONE-NIGHT STANDS? <br> [glow=red,2,300]Bother Me A Little, since I hold sex to be something special to be shared with people you have feelings for, even if its just friendship. A one-night stand rarely meets that criteria. Still, its her life, and I won't condemn her for it if I do love her.[/glow] 14. Would you prefer the woman you marry to have previously had NO sex partners or SOME sex partners? <br> [glow=red,2,300]The number of her past sex partners is none of my business. I'd hope that she had SOME partners though, since I like my partner to have some knowledge of what to do. [/glow] 15. Do you feel there is a difference between being in LOVE and being in LUST? [glow=red,2,300]Yes. The passion of Lust quickly fades after sex, even if its repeated sessions, but the flame of Love only grows brighter.[/glow] |
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Post by Falkirk on Nov 5, 2001 8:25:54 GMT -5
1. Is it possible for you to fall in love with a woman without having sex with her?That's hard to say. Not only would I have to answer hypothetically, but my definition of "falling in love" keeps changing. Offhand I'd say no. 2. Can having sex make the difference between falling in love and not falling in love for you? I don't think so. Is that inconsistent with my answer to #1? 3. If you cannot see yourself falling in love with someone, but she has sex with you, could that help you fall in love with her?Definitely not. 4. If you do not have any significant feelings for someone and she has sex with you, could this make you feel that she's 'special'?What actually happens is that once a woman has sex with me I tend to feel "obligated" to her. (I guess that's the term.) So I no longer have sex on short acquaintance. 5. Would you date a woman just to have sex with her?No. Well, I might make an exception if she were REALLY gorgeous.  6. If 'No' for #5, was there ever a time after the age of 18 you would have dated a woman just to have sex with her?Yes, probably. 7. If you were dating and using a woman just for sex, what's the longest you would date her?Probably until the novelty wore off, or until I ran across someone I liked better. The one relationship I can recall like that, I eventually felt the woman was using ME for sex, and she didn't arouse me any more. 8. If you were dating a woman just to have sex with her, how long would you date her BEFORE having sex if at first she said no?Probably three dates max. 9. If you're dating someone you consider special and she DOES NOT have sex quickly, does this make her...It Wouldn't Make A Difference In How I Felt About Her 10. If you're dating someone you consider special and she wanted to WAIT FOR MARRIAGE before having sex, would you wait? How long would you wait?I wouldn't wait for marriage. I think the sexual experience reveals a lot about a person, and I need to know what she's like in bed before I'd marry her. Insisting on waiting for marriage before having sex would indicate to me that she's sexually repressed. 11. How would you feel if the woman you marry previously had sex with another man that she loved?At my age, I'd be very surprised if she hadn't! LOL The Past Doesn't Matter To Me 12. How would you feel if the woman you fell in love with had sex QUICKLY with the men she previously dated?Bother Me A Little 13. How would you feel if the woman you loved previously had sex with other men on ONE-NIGHT STANDS?It would depend whether this had happened once or twice, or whether it was her regular practice. 14. Would you prefer the woman you marry to have previously had NO sex partners or SOME sex partners?The number of her past sex partners is none of my business 15. Do you feel there is a difference between being in LOVE and being in LUST?Definitely!
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Post by Erik on Nov 5, 2001 8:58:47 GMT -5
1. Is it possible for you to fall in love with a woman without having sex with her? Yes 2. Can having sex make the difference between falling in love and not falling in love for you? Doubt it 3. If you cannot see yourself falling in love with someone, but she has sex with you, could that help you fall in love with her? I think being very intimate like that helps bring you closer to the one you love, but its not the deciding factor for if you love someone. 4. If you do not have any significant feelings for someone and she has sex with you, could this make you feel that she's 'special'? Special? Thats a really general term...sure why not? Man1: Hey there is that girl you know. Man2: Yeah, I boned her last night. She's kinda special like that. 5. Would you date a woman just to have sex with her? No 6. If 'No' for #5, was there ever a time after the age of 18 you would have dated a woman just to have sex with her? No 7. If you were dating and using a woman just for sex, what's the longest you would date her? <br> I wouldn't do this...but I'd keep it as short as possible I guess. 8. If you were dating a woman just to have sex with her, how long would you date her BEFORE having sex if at first she said no? <br> Wouldn't happen. 9. If you're dating someone you consider special and she DOES NOT have sex quickly, does this make her... <br> It Wouldn't Make A Difference In How I Felt About Her 10. If you're dating someone you consider special and she wanted to WAIT FOR MARRIAGE before having sex, would you wait? How long would you wait? I'd wait...but what is special? If its someone I really love, I'll wait until she is ready. 11. How would you feel if the woman you marry previously had sex with another man that she loved? <br> Indifferent...as long as it was before we started dating. 12. How would you feel if the woman you fell in love with had sex QUICKLY with the men she previously dated? <br> Indifferent 13. How would you feel if the woman you loved previously had sex with other men on ONE-NIGHT STANDS? <br> Bother Me A Little 14. Would you prefer the woman you marry to have previously had NO sex partners or SOME sex partners? <br> The number of her past sex partners is none of my business 15. Do you feel there is a difference between being in LOVE and being in LUST? Yes....being in love is really caring for the other person. Lust is merely a desire to screw them |
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Post by Amen Ra on Nov 5, 2001 9:03:50 GMT -5
1. Is it possible for you to fall in love with a woman without having sex with her?
Yes
2. Can having sex make the difference between falling in love and not falling in love for you?
No
3. If you cannot see yourself falling in love with someone, but she has sex with you, could that help you fall in love with her?
I wouldn't have sex with her
4. If you do not have any significant feelings for someone and she has sex with you, could this make you feel that she's 'special'?
Same as 3
5. Would you date a woman just to have sex with her?
No
6. If 'No' for #5, was there ever a time after the age of 18 you would have dated a woman just to have sex with her?
No
7. If you were dating and using a woman just for sex, what's the longest you would date her? <br>
Wouldn't Happen
8. If you were dating a woman just to have sex with her, how long would you date her BEFORE having sex if at first she said no? <br>
Again wouldn't Happen
9. If you're dating someone you consider special and she DOES NOT have sex quickly, does this make her... <br>
It Wouldn't Make A Difference In How I Felt About Her
10. If you're dating someone you consider special and she wanted to WAIT FOR MARRIAGE before having sex, would you wait? How long would you wait?
Yeah id wait as long as she wanted
11. How would you feel if the woman you marry previously had sex with another man that she loved? <br>
The Past Doesn't Matter To Me
12. How would you feel if the woman you fell in love with had sex QUICKLY with the men she previously dated? <br>
Dunno never thought about it
13. How would you feel if the woman you loved previously had sex with other men on ONE-NIGHT STANDS? <br>
I think it would bother me but im not sure how much
14. Would you prefer the woman you marry to have previously had NO sex partners or SOME sex partners? <br>
Since id have to be in love with her completely to want to marry it wouldn't matter to me
15. Do you feel there is a difference between being in LOVE and being in LUST?
Yes a big differance
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Post by Nightcrawler on Nov 5, 2001 11:54:36 GMT -5
1. Is it possible for you to fall in love with a woman without having sex with her? Of course.2. Can having sex make the difference between falling in love and not falling in love for you? No.3. If you cannot see yourself falling in love with someone, but she has sex with you, could that help you fall in love with her? Well in that case she wouldn't be having sex with me anyway. 4. If you do not have any significant feelings for someone and she has sex with you, could this make you feel that she's 'special'? Again, she wouldn't be having sex with me. 5. Would you date a woman just to have sex with her? Nope.6. If 'No' for #5, was there ever a time after the age of 18 you would have dated a woman just to have sex with her? Nope.7. If you were dating and using a woman just for sex, what's the longest you would date her? <br> Did you read my last 2 answers?? 8. If you were dating a woman just to have sex with her, how long would you date her BEFORE having sex if at first she said no? <br> See #7 9. If you're dating someone you consider special and she DOES NOT have sex quickly, does this make her... More appealing by far.10. If you're dating someone you consider special and she wanted to WAIT FOR MARRIAGE before having sex, would you wait? How long would you wait? Yeah I'd wait.11. How would you feel if the woman you marry previously had sex with another man that she loved? <br> It would bother me a little at first, but I'd get over it pretty quickly.12. How would you feel if the woman you fell in love with had sex QUICKLY with the men she previously dated? <br> Same answer. As long as she's committed to me the past doesn't matter all too much. But it would bother me a little at first. 13. How would you feel if the woman you loved previously had sex with other men on ONE-NIGHT STANDS? <br> Well I have to say this would bother me, how much I'm not sure. If she has changed then I'd like to say it wouldn't matter, but I think she would have to have been away from being a slut for a while for me to be ok with it. 14. Would you prefer the woman you marry to have previously had NO sex partners or SOME sex partners? <br> Well I'd prefer none, but that's just unrealistic and I don't think I'd even ask her. If she told me something over like 5, I'd be taken back...but if this is the woman I'm planning on marrying it wouldn't matter really.15. Do you feel there is a difference between being in LOVE and being in LUST? Of course. |
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Post by Falkirk on Nov 5, 2001 12:22:54 GMT -5
Nightcrawler, I have to respectfully question the validity of your answers. You said in another thread that you're a virgin. With no sexual experience, how can you say with any confidence what you'd do in those situations?
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Post by Nightcrawler on Nov 5, 2001 12:34:45 GMT -5
Nightcrawler, I have to respectfully question the validity of your answers. You said in another thread that you're a virgin. With no sexual experience, how can you say with any confidence what you'd do in those situations? Ok well I think my answers make perfect sense...exactly what situations are you referring to? |
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Post by ElricMorlockin on Nov 5, 2001 12:42:38 GMT -5
1. Is it possible for you to fall in love with a woman without having sex with her? Wow! Hmmmm..... well when I think about it, when she was madly in love/lust whatever ya call it, it would be her wanting sex to show me, from what I recall. But I guess my answer would be No, since eventually you will hop in the sack to "consumate" things. 2. Can having sex make the difference between falling in love and not falling in love for you? No, its an end not a means. 3. If you cannot see yourself falling in love with someone, but she has sex with you, could that help you fall in love with her? No 4. If you do not have any significant feelings for someone and she has sex with you, could this make you feel that she's 'special'? Sure! She puts out! LOL! 5. Would you date a woman just to have sex with her? Yes, I should rephrase and say, yes I have. But it was mutual 6. If 'No' for #5, was there ever a time after the age of 18 you would have dated a woman just to have sex with her? N/A 7. If you were dating and using a woman just for sex, what's the longest you would date her? Indefinitely 8. If you were dating a woman just to have sex with her, how long would you date her BEFORE having sex if at first she said no? As long as it took to get her to say yes. Note: This depends on the person. I've dated women that I had no desire to have sex with also. 9. If you're dating someone you consider special and she DOES NOT have sex quickly, does this make her... More Appealing Ahhh, the catch 22 of being a woman! I actually respect women who dont "put out" to easily. After all, if she puts out that easy to me, she also put out to God only knows how many other guys! In my mind, that shows a complete lack of self respect. 10. If you're dating someone you consider special and she wanted to WAIT FOR MARRIAGE before having sex, would you wait? How long would you wait? Sure. If she was the "one" I would more than honor that. Sex after all isnt the only reason to date someone. Personally I always just enjoyed female company, if things got heavy, so be it. 11. How would you feel if the woman you marry previously had sex with another man that she loved? Indifferent- It doesnt matter to me that I didnt pop my wifes cherry. To be honest, I'd rather someone else do this anyway! I dont care about who was first but who is last! 12. How would you feel if the woman you fell in love with had sex QUICKLY with the men she previously dated? Indifferent- Its none of my business, if she wants me to know, she would tell me, and I dont ask! 13. How would you feel if the woman you loved previously had sex with other men on ONE-NIGHT STANDS? Bother Me A Little- Especially if she did this common place. Again in my mind it shows a lack of self respect and quite a bit of lacking in self control. 14. Would you prefer the woman you marry to have previously had NO sex partners or SOME sex partners? The number of her past sex partners is none of my business 15. Do you feel there is a difference between being in LOVE and being in LUST? Yes, absolute difference, the divorce rate reflects this IMO. |
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Post by Silmarillion on Nov 5, 2001 12:43:23 GMT -5
If she has changed then I'd like to say it wouldn't matter, but I think she would have to have been away from being a slut for a while for me to be ok with it. *smack* |
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Post by ElricMorlockin on Nov 5, 2001 12:58:30 GMT -5
LMAO!!!!!
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Post by Nightcrawler on Nov 5, 2001 13:47:39 GMT -5
*Looks around innocently* Was it something I said??  |
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Post by Kothoses the Tyrant on Nov 5, 2001 15:38:46 GMT -5
1. Is it possible for you to fall in love with a woman without having sex with her?
Definatly, sex is a way of showing love, not getting it.
2. Can having sex make the difference between falling in love and not falling in love for you?
Nope it makes very little difference.
3. If you cannot see yourself falling in love with someone, but she has sex with you, could that help you fall in love with her?
Nope
4. If you do not have any significant feelings for someone and she has sex with you, could this make you feel that she's 'special'?
If I did not have significant feelings my trousers would stay on simple as.
5. Would you date a woman just to have sex with her?
Nope, its ultimatly soul destroying in my opinion.
6. If 'No' for #5, was there ever a time after the age of 18 you would have dated a woman just to have sex with her?
Nope
7. If you were dating and using a woman just for sex, what's the longest you would date her?
I wouldnt
1 Night
1 Week or Less
1 Month or Less
2 Months
3 Months
4 Months
5 Months
6 Months
Indefinitely
8. If you were dating a woman just to have sex with her, how long would you date her BEFORE having sex if at first she said no?
Again I wouldnt
1 Week
2 Weeks
3 Weeks
1 Month
2 Months
3 Months
6 Months
9 Months
12 Months
As long as it took to get her to say yes.
9. If you're dating someone you consider special and she DOES NOT have sex quickly, does this make her...
More Appealing
Less Appealing
It Wouldn't Make A Difference In How I Felt About Her
It most definatly would not make a difference.
10. If you're dating someone you consider special and she wanted to WAIT FOR MARRIAGE before having sex, would you wait? How long would you wait?
If she was that special I would wait for aslong as she wanted me to.
11. How would you feel if the woman you marry previously had sex with another man that she loved?
It would not bother me at all, everyone has history its the future that counts and the here and now.
12. How would you feel if the woman you fell in love with had sex QUICKLY with the men she previously dated?
Again What Happened In The Past Doesn't Matter, its the now and the future that counts.
13. How would you feel if the woman you loved previously had sex with other men on ONE-NIGHT STANDS?
Again What Happened In The Past Doesn't Matter, its the now and the future that counts.
14. Would you prefer the woman you marry to have previously had NO sex partners or SOME sex partners?
Yet again I state What Happened In The Past Doesn't Matter, its the now and the future that counts.
15. Do you feel there is a difference between being in LOVE and being in LUST?
A Huge one, sorta like asking the difference between winning £10 for 3 numbers on the lottery and winning a roll over jackpot.
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Post by Solaufein_Xiltyn on Nov 5, 2001 16:39:34 GMT -5
1. Is it possible for you to fall in love with a woman without having sex with her?
[glow=red,2,300]I have not have sex with her yet but.......[/glow]
2. Can having sex make the difference between falling in love and not falling in love for you?
[glow=red,2,300]?[/glow]
3. If you cannot see yourself falling in love with someone, but she has sex with you, could that help you fall in love with her? [glow=red,2,300]....[/glow]
4. If you do not have any significant feelings for someone and she has sex with you, could this make you feel that she's 'special'?
[glow=red,2,300]No she's just a sex partner[/glow]
5. Would you date a woman just to have sex with her?
[glow=red,2,300]Yes[/glow]
6. If 'No' for #5, was there ever a time after the age of 18 you would have dated a woman just to have sex with her?
7. If you were dating and using a woman just for sex, what's the longest you would date her?
[glow=red,2,300]Until I tired of her or I found the "One"[/glow]
8. If you were dating a woman just to have sex with her, how long would you date her BEFORE having sex if at first she said no?
[glow=red,2,300]NO? To the Great One? Contrary to popular belief I can be very seductive if I wish it[/glow]
9. If you're dating someone you consider special and she DOES NOT have sex quickly, does this make her...
[glow=red,2,300]There is someone special see question 1 and i have yet to even gone up to bat[/glow]
10. If you're dating someone you consider special and she wanted to WAIT FOR MARRIAGE before having sex, would you wait? How long would you wait?
[glow=red,2,300]uhhhh[/glow]
11. How would you feel if the woman you marry previously had sex with another man that she loved?
[glow=red,2,300]I'd rather not know about her former sex or love life. I am a very jelous person[/glow]
12. How would you feel if the woman you fell in love with had sex QUICKLY with the men she previously dated?
[glow=red,2,300]See question 11[/glow]
13. How would you feel if the woman you loved previously had sex with other men on ONE-NIGHT STANDS?
[shadow=red,left,300]Question 11 again[/shadow]
14. Would you prefer the woman you marry to have previously had NO sex partners or SOME sex partners?
[glow=red,2,300]See question 11[/glow]
15. Do you feel there is a difference between being in LOVE and being in LUST?
[glow=red,2,300]Of course there is a difference. i lust after many women but do not love them[/glow]
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