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Post by Silmarillion on Nov 5, 2001 2:00:25 GMT -5
Found this poll, but one was for women, the other was for men....some of these have probably been covered before, but oh well...LOL
This one if for the girls....
1. Do you have to really like a guy before going on a date with him?
2. What most makes a man attractive to you?
His looks His intelligence His personality His money 3. Would you ever have sex with a man you didn't like?
4. Have you ever had sex with a man you didn't love?
5. Do you believe men and women can be friends without being lovers?
6. Would you want the guy you fall in love with to be an experienced lover?
7. Would you ever have sex with a man on the first date?
8. Do you think looking sexy makes you more attractive to the type of man you would like to marry?
9. Do you know the difference between lust and love?
10. Does having sex with a man mean the two of you are in a committed relationship?
11. Is having oral sex the same thing as having regular sex?
12. Would you (or have you) date(d) a man just for sex?
13. Ever had sex with someone because you were pressured to?
14. Would it matter to you if you found out your partner had quite a few previous partners?
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Post by Bex on Nov 5, 2001 10:08:01 GMT -5
1. Do you have to really like a guy before going on a date with him?
not really. i've been known to agree to a date in order to get to know someone better, so i just need to see potential.
2. What most makes a man attractive to you?
looks is the first thing i might notice (don't have to talk to someone to tell what they look like), but personality and intelligence are far more important. smart jerks and dumb nice-guys are about equally unappealing in the long run.
3. Would you ever have sex with a man you didn't like?
willingly? no.
4. Have you ever had sex with a man you didn't love?
yes.
5. Do you believe men and women can be friends without being lovers?
yes. especially if he's gay LOL. but seriously yes.
6. Would you want the guy you fall in love with to be an experienced lover?
wouldn't have to be. being experienced and being good at it are not the same thing.
7. Would you ever have sex with a man on the first date?
would that be a bad thing? i would if i liked him enough.
8. Do you think looking sexy makes you more attractive to the type of man you would like to marry?
this question confuses me. everyone has a different idea of what makes a person sexy and/or attractive. also, type? what about individuals?
9. Do you know the difference between lust and love?
a resounding yes, having been in both, sometimes simultaneously, and managed to keep them straight.
10. Does having sex with a man mean the two of you are in a committed relationship?
no, it means we had sex.
11. Is having oral sex the same thing as having regular sex?
like a certain former president, i see them as different. but i like oral sex as foreplay, so it often leads up to intercourse anyway.
12. Would you (or have you) date(d) a man just for sex?
yes, but he was dating me for the same reason, and we were up-front about it.
13. Ever had sex with someone because you were pressured to?
no.
14. Would it matter to you if you found out your partner had quite a few previous partners?
not at all, unless it looked like he was planning on adding me to a list of conquests.
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Post by Blizzard on Nov 5, 2001 10:15:34 GMT -5
Found this poll, but one was for women, the other was for men....some of these have probably been covered before, but oh well...LOL This one if for the girls.... 1. Do you have to really like a guy before going on a date with him? 2. What most makes a man attractive to you? <br> His looks His intelligence His personality His money 3. Would you ever have sex with a man you didn't like? 4. Have you ever had sex with a man you didn't love? 5. Do you believe men and women can be friends without being lovers? 6. Would you want the guy you fall in love with to be an experienced lover? 7. Would you ever have sex with a man on the first date? 8. Do you think looking sexy makes you more attractive to the type of man you would like to marry? 9. Do you know the difference between lust and love? 10. Does having sex with a man mean the two of you are in a committed relationship? 11. Is having oral sex the same thing as having regular sex? 12. Would you (or have you) date(d) a man just for sex? 13. Ever had sex with someone because you were pressured to? 14. Would it matter to you if you found out your partner had quite a few previous partners? <br> 1. Dont like em ever 2. Nothing 3. Not even one I liked 4. Same as above 5. Sure 6. Wont happen 7. Wont ever be a date to begine with 8. Nop. Its to please myself 9. Oh yes. Lust is what makes sex so grand. Love is what makes it last. 10. Either that, or youre desperately horny. 11. Good question. 12. Nop 13. No. 14. It always should at first. Someone whos been around a lot should cause concern to anyone whos interested in them, simply to be careful.
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Post by Silmarillion on Nov 5, 2001 10:19:37 GMT -5
1. Do you have to really like a guy before going on a date with him?
Not necessarily
2. What most makes a man attractive to you? <br>
His personality
3. Would you ever have sex with a man you didn't like?
I have
4. Have you ever had sex with a man you didn't love?
absolutely
5. Do you believe men and women can be friends without being lovers?
of course
6. Would you want the guy you fall in love with to be an experienced lover?
Yes
7. Would you ever have sex with a man on the first date?
Yup
8. Do you think looking sexy makes you more attractive to the type of man you would like to marry?
Yes, I want a man who recognizes and appreciates 'sexy'.
9. Do you know the difference between lust and love?
I have been confused before, but as one gets older (and has experienced both) it becomes easier to tell the difference. So, I'd have to say yes to that now.
10. Does having sex with a man mean the two of you are in a committed relationship?
Not at all
11. Is having oral sex the same thing as having regular sex?
Absolutely, in fact I think it's much more intimate than 'regular' sex.
12. Would you (or have you) date(d) a man just for sex?
Yes I would, and yes I have. It was mutually agreed upon though.
13. Ever had sex with someone because you were pressured to?
Yes
14. Would it matter to you if you found out your partner had quite a few previous partners? <br>Nope, none of my business...as long as it wasn't still going on
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CJ
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Post by CJ on Nov 5, 2001 10:59:33 GMT -5
1. Do you have to really like a guy before going on a date with him?
well it helps... If there is no attraction whatsoever and he doesnt seem interesting to me on that plan, I wouldnt go. Then again I've never been on a date.
2. What most makes a man attractive to you? <br> His looks His intelligence His personality
3. Would you ever have sex with a man you didn't like?
yeah that happened. I hope it wont happen again.
4. Have you ever had sex with a man you didn't love?
yep
5. Do you believe men and women can be friends without being lovers?
lol of course. Actually most of my friends are male. But what am I saying, I dont have friends.
6. Would you want the guy you fall in love with to be an experienced lover?
that's always a plus.
7. Would you ever have sex with a man on the first date?
yep.
8. Do you think looking sexy makes you more attractive to the type of man you would like to marry?
wuzzle? *me*? sexy? go buy some glasses.
9. Do you know the difference between lust and love?
lol yes.
10. Does having sex with a man mean the two of you are in a committed relationship?
nope
11. Is having oral sex the same thing as having regular sex?
nope. not as fulfilling, and to some, having oral sex doesnt mean cheating since there wasnt intercourse. I dont really know where I stand on this one, but I can say that it's defintely not the same.
12. Would you (or have you) date(d) a man just for sex?
that could be fun, so yeah i would
13. Ever had sex with someone because you were pressured to?
nope.
14. Would it matter to you if you found out your partner had quite a few previous partners? <br>Nope, doesnt matter.
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Post by Nightcrawler on Nov 5, 2001 12:02:08 GMT -5
...to some, having oral sex doesnt mean cheating since there wasnt intercourse. Are you kidding?? I consider even kissing another person cheating!! Who are these people??
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CJ
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Post by CJ on Nov 5, 2001 12:10:37 GMT -5
no unfortunately, I am not kidding.
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Post by Silmarillion on Nov 5, 2001 12:40:05 GMT -5
Are you kidding?? I consider even kissing another person cheating!! Who are these people?? Tell me about it....baffles my mind too.
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Post by Blizzard on Nov 5, 2001 12:48:28 GMT -5
Dont worry sweetie, Im not cheating on you, Im just having sex with someone else
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Post by ElricMorlockin on Nov 5, 2001 12:54:40 GMT -5
Are you kidding?? I consider even kissing another person cheating!! Who are these people?? Night! I couldnt agree more and from what I recall so did some of the girls I dated! LOL!!! And oral sex "not cheating" ? (I need a baffled smiley for that one!). I only hope ya'll feel the same way when you find hubbie getting some at work from the secretary! LOL!!!
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Post by Silmarillion on Nov 5, 2001 13:10:38 GMT -5
ROFL @ Elric
A friend of mine have agreed to disagree on this subject, he feels that oral sex (giving or receiving) isn't cheating. I'm floored by that idea. and after thinking about it, I would rather my bf/husband came home and said that he had just banged some chick in a one night stand than for him to tell me he'd just gotten a bj and/or went down on some woman. To me, cheating via oral sex would be much more difficult to forgive because I think it's much more intimate.
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Post by Nightcrawler on Nov 5, 2001 13:12:40 GMT -5
To me it's all the same. It's not the act but the principle.
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Post by Silmarillion on Nov 5, 2001 13:39:34 GMT -5
It's not the act but the principle. Precisely!
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